{"id":7731,"date":"2018-01-28T21:04:53","date_gmt":"2018-01-28T21:04:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.moverscorp.com\/?p=7731"},"modified":"2023-03-31T22:16:46","modified_gmt":"2023-03-31T22:16:46","slug":"should-you-encourage-your-elderly-parents-to-move-to-assisted-living","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.moverscorp.com\/blog\/should-you-encourage-your-elderly-parents-to-move-to-assisted-living\/","title":{"rendered":"Should You Encourage Your Elderly Parents To Move To Assisted Living?"},"content":{"rendered":"

As more people are living longer, more and more kids are needing to face a time when their elderly parents are struggling to live on their own. Due to medical conditions, financial concerns, and simple facts of aging, adult children may begin to wonder if their parents would be more comfortable, safer, and healthier by moving to an assisted living home<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Whether that is appropriate is going to vary from family to family and person to person. It\u2019s important that conversations about assisted living and other important family events not happen in anger; adult children need to be calm when they discuss these sorts of changes and understand that their elderly parents may be very concerned or even afraid about leaving their homes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Consider some of these factors when thinking about whether assisted living might be appropriate for the parent in question.<\/p>\n

Is Assisted Living The Right Choice?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Assisted living is a community atmosphere and a location where social contact is valued. Facilities seek to prevent isolation, so it mandates that inmates spend some of their mealtimes in the dining room mingling with other residents. Theoretically sound and capable of success, it’s not for everyone. Assisted living will not provide your elderly loved one with her money’s worth if she is a true loner who rarely makes friends, refuses to participate in activities, and prefers to remain by herself.<\/p>\n

In general, social isolation should be avoided so that people can rely on others, form fulfilling relationships, and most importantly, receive assistance when they need it. These positive relationships can happen in a range of settings, from luxurious assisted living facilities to more affordable houses.<\/p>\n

Would relocation fix the problem?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sometimes, elderly parents are still living in the home where they raised their families and have lived for many years. The home may be too big for them to maintain, or it might have too many stairs and obstacles to manage. If these are the only complications, it may be more appropriate for the elderly parent to simply move to a single-floor apartment or condo<\/a>. This may also help to preserve finances for years to come.<\/p>\n

Do medical needs allow for support at home?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The medical community is acknowledging that for many seniors, the transition to assisted living is traumatic and may result in decreased health. Accordingly, home health is a rapidly growing industry that focuses on helping seniors stay in their homes as long as possible. Home health nurses can help with many medical concerns, while live-in attendants can help with tasks like cleaning, cooking, and providing company to elderly parents.<\/p>\n

For a parent who has more significant needs than their adult child can manage, but doesn\u2019t have such serious medical needs that they need around-the-clock care, support at home may be both financially responsible<\/a> and the best solution. Many state health insurances will also help to pay for in-home support, since it is in their best interests to keep the elderly out of nursing homes and assisted living facilities.<\/p>\n

Arrangements for Couples vs. Singles in Assisted Living<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The arrangements for relocating couples versus singles<\/a> may vary, so keep that in mind when thinking about placing your elderly folks in assisted living. Finding a unit that can accommodate two people is generally simpler for couples, and the cost of assisted living for couples may be less expensive per person than for singles. However, if one partner needs more care than the other, or if they have distinct medical requirements or care preferences, couples may also encounter difficulties.<\/p>\n

The choices for assisted living for single people may be more constrained because many facilities cater to couples or roommates. Since they don’t have a partner to split costs with, single people may also have to spend more for their housing. To counteract loneliness and social isolation, some assisted living facilities provide singles with private studio or one-bedroom apartments as well as social activities and events.<\/p>\n

Ability To Manage Daily Living Tasks?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

There are limits to what in-home attendance and home health nurses are able to do. If the elderly parent is struggling to bathe and dress, struggles to manage daily bathroom routines, or their health is deteriorating because they aren\u2019t able to take their medications or monitor things like blood pressure or blood sugar on their own, it may be appropriate to consider assisted living as a viable option.<\/p>\n

Changing Physical Appearance?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sometimes asking elderly parents about how they’re doing at home can be complicated. Knowing that their deteriorating status may encourage adult children to change their living situation, seniors may try to hide or mask their struggles. Adult children should watch, therefore, for certain signs that their parent isn\u2019t as healthy as they could be. If they aren\u2019t bathing regularly, for example, or they begin to have bruises or other physical injuries, these may be signs that they aren\u2019t doing as well at home as they may say they are.<\/p>\n

Are Other Options Insufficient?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When all other options are insufficient, it may be time to consider discussing the possibility of relocating with an elderly parent.<\/a> Adult children should be calm and sensitive during these conversations. Remember that it\u2019s not just possible, but likely, that seniors will be upset at the idea of moving<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019ve lived in their home for a long time, they may be distraught at the number of changes that will be involved. They may be concerned about letting go of meaningful possessions. They may be concerned that they\u2019ll lose their social circle when they move.<\/p>\n

There are many ways to help assuage fears and calm nerves. Instead of saying flat out what is going to happen, adult children can ask questions. \u201cDo you ever think about moving somewhere where you\u2019ll be safer,\u201d or \u201cWouldn\u2019t it be nice not to have to worry about cleaning or cooking anymore?\u201d may get to a better place than simply informing someone that they\u2019ll be moving.<\/p>\n

It may also be helpful to talk to an elderly parent\u2019s doctor to get an idea of whether they think assisted living is the right choice. They may have resources that can be accessed that adult children may not be aware of, and that may help keep seniors in their homes longer. In general, assisted living is more expensive than home health options, so if seniors can safely stay at home, this is often the better choice.<\/p>\n\n\n

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